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Wednesday, July 21, 2004
This is taken off someone's blog:
Then on Monday i went swimming with d******k... we also watched shrek... and then tuesday we went to sch... and weds (oops, i don't remember)oh i think we went karaoking....Tues i went over to his place to surprise him... I brought some drink over for his sore throat... haha... he was really surprised! Then at around 8 he came over to my place with Flowers from Yunnan.Cos shijia went yunnan and he got her to buy some flowers from there so he could give them to me... so after I left his place he went to meet her to get e flowers... It was supposed to be a surprise but i kinda knew abt it... Still, it was real sweet... and nice... On thurs i had driving and met him at Seoul Garden at Marina at around 2... We had the student thingy... then walked around and went home... Friday was a memorable day. We went sentosa... After reaching we decided to go for a walk....
Would anyone ever guess that they are medical students? Maybe not, because the general impression that a medical student gives is that he/she is always busy studying, and having no life. True, that might be true during the school term,but I am sure that they enjoy themselves immensely in that short time that they are together while in school. Needless to say,they go wild when the hols come.Going to Sentosa, giving/receiving flowers and so on...really beautiful,really makes one go green with envy.
Always used to think how beautiful and romantic it'd be to receive a huge bouquet of flowers, having candlelight dinner,taking a stroll along the beach to watch the sunset,driving along a deserted road like a maniac with my Prince Charming with shiny armor. I am sure that he'd steal my breath. Wow. And many girls do fantasize about that,really?
Well one might say that reality is often different from fairytale, there are fairytales in reality too,aren't there? There exists this fairytale element even in reality. WHy? Because sometimes,reality can be too cold and too much to bear.
Would one consider giving his/her significant other a big bouquet of roses insane? There are some who do no doubt. But they are more then willing to burn a hole in their pockets to see a smile on the other person's face. Man I am sure that the feeling of being at the receiving enf of something so beautiful must be enough make one lose his/her head. It is enough to blow one's head off. Man, there are some stupid people who regard " Would you like to buy an apartment with me" a marriage proposal. But hey,to me, that is far far far from being a marriage proposal. A marriage proposal is not one without the actual popping of the question and the necessary items like the ring and yes,roses. I guess I'd kill for someone who'd kneel in a restaurant[if you are the kind who will freak out, then I guess you'd have to book the whole restaurant to yourself =)] with a huge bouquet of roses and the ring while proposing.Better still,buy me my dream car and let me search for the ring which is placed inside it ;). Man. "Do you wanna buy an apartment with me" simply lacks sincerity. It's just like asking "Do you like steak" when what you wanna ask is "Would u like to have dinner with me?" Kinda crappy.Bah.
I seriously wonder, does it mean that being swept off your feet while courting= you will love the person forever? Does it mean that you'd fulfil the vow "for better or for worse, in health or in sickness, in wealth or in poverty,till death do us part"? To me, that does not mean that. I mean ,how many a time have you read about celebrities like J.Lo and Ben Affleck? Yes,he gives her a huge pink diamond ring. But they broke up eventually anyway. Love is much more than that. However, sometimes, I think that it is necessary to do special things together as a couple in order to rekindle new feelings for each other. I think that the essence in keeping a relationship strong and evergreen is one,mutual trust and understanding. Two, the couple must be able to grow together. Not literally growing taller or anything,but rather,growing to become more mature, more understanding,and being able to appreciate each other's strengths and faults,for it is one's strengths and weakness that makes one human.Three, there must be something done to rekindle new feelings for each other. And by doing this, you two are growing together too,isn't that so? You get to discover new feelings for each other,and you learn to appreciate each other more.So that's why, life doesn't stop after marriage and baby comes.And yes,I do hope to find the gallant knight with shiny armor riding on a white horse whom I feel I can enjoy romantic moments with. ANd someone whom I can grow with.
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