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Friday, October 22, 2004
I had a nice time with my BD on Wednesday. We shared a smoked salmon pizza and tiramisu for lunch. Also, we each had a serving of chicken fettuccine. We were at Munchie Monkey's. WHat a name. Ah...if got chance must take BD to the SIM lounge one night for a nice dinner. =) It always feels good with BD. I like being with BD...Wonder if the feeling is mutual?
Today I went to pay my Finance Prof a visit. Haha. This is the 1st time I am looking up a prof during office hrs in my 3 terms here! I sent a mail to her last night at midnight sayign that I will look for her at 0930,but when I got to school she wasn't there... =( THen at 10 plus she sent me a reply saying that she was out running an errand. Heh. I was complaining to someone that I wanted to look for my prof and that person correctly mentioned that it was my finance prof. I was asking the person, "How did you know?" And that person replied that he is getting better at reading the minds of others.Wooo. Scary...zzz =D
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Monday, October 18, 2004
I really am envious of the courtship that some couples share. They go on overseas trips together, they camp overnight at each other's house, old enough to enjoy the freedom that they are ENTITLED to. They share so many beautiful memories together. But for me, I can only say that it will only be in a thousand years before I can enjoy something like that, which I think is sad =( . Mind you lest your mind gets contaminated (hey there don't think dirty ok? I think the minds of some are unduly CONTAMINATED AND DIRTY!!), camping overnight and going on overseas trips does not mean that you stay in bed and do IT ok?
I think that going on overseas trips togetheris not a bad thing for it creates an opportunity for both to spend time together to relax and to expand horizons. It is a chance for both to learn about other cultures. It also gives the opportunity for both to communicate. We are so tied down with work and studies that we barely spend time together, to spend time cultivating and nurturing the relationship.As for camping overnight, it is a chance to get to know the family members better, and to know the lifestyle lead by your significant other. Is that wrong? I think in that sense, cohabitation offers the advantage of letting a couple have a taste of life after marriage. But get it straight, I am not a proponent of cohabitation here. I am not saying that it is wrong, but it is not that I do not accept it either.
People oppose to camping overnight at their GF'S place on the pretext of protecting the honor of the girl, which I think is dumb. You mean the girl is so stupid as to tarnish her own reputation INTENTIONALLY?? HA! C'mon the girl is not one with IQ 70 and you, the one with IQ 180. Duh~~ I think tarnishing the honor the girl is not as serious as not as divorcing her because you find her lifestyle unacceptable. One, she has to bear the stigma of being a divorcee. Two, if she were to get re-married, her new parents-in-law might mind. Three, it affects her chances of getting a top mgmt job, for divorcees are discriminated upon. Also, if you are really so concerned about her honor, then keep your hands off her..zzzzz...Because you would have to a certain extent, defiled her.
Camping overnight offers couples the chance to iron out the differences in lifestyle of both parties. Seriously, with the hectic lifestyle led by most couples today, they do not have a chance to communicate,and the lack of communication is the main reason why marriages break down. If differences have been ironed out prior to marriage, I would think that marriage life would be a lot easier isn't it? People get married because they feel that they know each other really well and want to spend the rest of their lives together. So is that not ironic that people actually have the intention of getting married without the intention of creating opportunities to understand each other? Marriage does not mean a thing then!
Hopefully, I would be able to have a relationship at that level by a certain time-a strong relationship. If I don't I think it will be in the interest of both to sever the relationship. What is the point of holding on to a relationship that is nothing more than an empty shell? I think I would be better off searching for a new relationship which I know I can take to a higher level, just as how it is better watering a plant which you know will flower than watering a withered plant.
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Sunday, October 10, 2004
Was out testing driving three cars yesterday- the Nissan Sunny EX Saloon( They only allow people to test the EX saloon and not the Super Saloon), the Toyota Corolla Altis and the Honda Civic. Think that of the lot the Altis is the worst. Then Dad sprang a surprise-that he had neither in his eyes. He actually had in mind the Camry/ Cefiro although Dad thinks that the Cefiro is not that fantastic looking. But I think it is ok...Got camera at the back and got screen at the front to see what is going on at the back. Kewl but that means that the mirrors are redundant la.. Haha. But I think the big cars are damn zai. Real spacious and the engines are powerful. The Altis seems to be crawling. So hard to accelerate.
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Saturday, October 02, 2004
I just celebrated my 20th birthday today, although my birthday is on tuesday. The celebration really rawked man. I had this really wonderful lunch at Lao Beijing with my family and BD. The food was yummy, with Peking Duck, ribs etc. My mom also prepared this really unique dessert which consisted of black glutinous rice, ginko nut, melon, ice cream and nata de coco. Yummy...never tasted anything like that before. Trust me, the dessert tasted heavenly. Mom really loves me so she planned all these for me. Thanks so much mom *hugs* I am my dad's PRINCESS :p Heehee he calls me that. Princess.. :) The highlight of the day was the black forest cake from Hyatt. Hey that cake is not the cheap ones that you get from normal bakeries ok. The price of this cake = 2 of those cakes u get from the normal bakeries. :) Hi-class one. The cake is really unique, with cherries soaked in liquer.. :) :)
When I opened my email inbox I had a pleasant surprise. Someone sent me this really sweet ecard. I did not expect it as I had received a gift from that person. I received 3 roses (= I love u), a gift which I have not opened. The gift was rather beautifully wrapped. Wonder what it is? It looks like something really exquisite. But I think I shall wait till next week to open the gift. Cant wait to open it and see what it is inside. I think the person must have put in a lot of effort in planning the whole thing. Really good considering that we all are so bogged down by tests, assignments and projects. Plus with mid terms, I really wonder when the person got the time to do it. Hahaa. Curious, must ask that person how to manage time lor. My time mgmt skills need to be polished on! BD got me a nice blue watch. Thanks dear
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